Dealing With Emotions
Until now, being forced to function within a hyper-masculine paradigm, the emotions of an average person have deteriorated considerably in their quality and stature. Instead of offering innovative and vital insight into the human soul, your emotions have been reduced merely to PROGRAMMED REACTIONS to human circumstance. If things do not go your way, you get angry. Your body energy swells and peaks. If you experience loss, you become sad. If your body chemistry gets jumbled, or if you have fear about the outcome of some situation, you became anxious---and so on and so forth.
Most societal systems are facades that have been set up to perpetuate the need for control, the lust for power. The more energy humans pour into perfecting society, the less they will spend on examining their own hearts for signs of imbalance and deep inner need. Families are not a reflection of the society in which they exist. It is the other way around. And individuals are not formed by their families, either. The larger body exists to be a mirror for the smaller---even as the smaller is meant to be a mirror for the one. To seek to control and regulate your reflection in the great mirror is to miss the point of it all. One cannot improve his experience of the INSIDE merely by focusing his efforts upon controlling the OUTSIDE.
Female control is not superior to Male control. It's just different, that's all. It moves through the body in unique neural pathways. Because mere "reactivity" to circumstances became tedious and futile, the female element (in many places on your planet still subjugated to the male) began to eat from a tree that contained "secret knowledge." Feelings became a deeper way of knowing, as women learned (probably from their children) to pay attention to signs and signals in people that logic tended to overlook. Interestingly enough, more and more men today are becoming inclined to rock that cradle. They are also spending more time listening to and observing women. As they relax their need to be admired, and to deny their own inner feminine, they are beginning to learn some deep lessons.
This transformation in the male icon is your sign that Global Transmutation is upon you. Women striving to gain control (in society) is simply another reaction to outward circumstance. Though it has some temporary cathartic value for them, it is really the softening of male pride and aggression that will finally turn the tide of your planetary energy.
Let us suggest to you a new definition for emotion. Stated simply, e-motion is ENERGY IN MOTION. Genuine e-motion flows gently, freely--- unhindered by the need or the desire for control. It simply is what it is. It also allows others to be what they are. Being unattached to outcomes, e-motion actually seems to move right through any obstacles, like a fog moving through a sleeping city.
Each and everyone of you has thousands upon thousands of e-motions going on within you at any one moment. However, most of you miss them because of the intensive body-based control issues that have been programmed into you. Do you wish to unblock those daily stalemates that are playing themselves out in your bodies and minds? All you have to do is shift your attention away from them for a moment and begin to focus upon the more subtle energies that have been flowing in and around you since the very beginning.
Your living e-motions are entities unto themselves. Mostly, they are transient in nature. They move through you, arriving from or going to other destinations. They are children at play. They have no consuming interest in you. In fact, they are nearly oblivious to the fact that you (as a separate entity) exist. That's what makes them so dear. They have their obvious agendas, and they are assuming responsibility for realizing those goals. It is you who must become interested in them. They are your teachers, your guides. That which appears only on the surface has many gifts for you, hidden beneath! Take time to look, take time to examine.