KEYS TO ASCENSION
by Daniel Jacob
When families are traumatized by an upsurge of dysfunction or need in a parent, the contributory gender trait that would ordinarily be brought in through that parent is short-circuited. If the needy parent is female, the development and expression of emotions in that family is injured. If the needy parent is male, there is often an impairment in a child's development of personal power, decisiveness, and the ability to support oneself.
Female = Intuition, Emotion, and Relationship.
Male = Logic, Action, and Independence.
All parents have conflicting ideas at times. But the goal of coming together needs to be harmonization and oneness If the conflicts in one of both parents results in an ousting, or a departure.......for "legitimate" reasons or not..........there is an injury to everyone's ability to integrate the qualities of that absent parent...............OR..........there will be a sense of alienation and taking of sides, because the parent who did the ousting was responsible for the family being broken up.